findPopupMenu
Given an item in a PopupMenu, this finds the PopupMenu.
There is no direct relationship from items in a PopupMenu to the PopupMenu, but finding it is easy, because PopupMenus are the root node of the scene.
Returns null, if menuItem isn't currently shown (or is part of a scene which isn't a popup menu).
menuItem can be any node, but is almost always a MenuItemBase.